Tibetan Monks Story... by: Patricia From Tibetan Life
I'm not sure which story you mean but I will keep an eye out. Perhaps another visitor knows the one you mean and can send a link.
What a wonderful idea, to go and live in Tibet!
To visit Tibet you will need a Chinese visa. As for living in Tibet, take a look at this interesting forum where travelers and visitors to Tibet and China discuss just about everything. It should give you a lead or two:
http://www.chinese-tools.com/forum
Also check here at the fabulous Lonely Planet forums: